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<\/figure>\n\n\n\nThere are four main temperaments, but an individual might\nhave more than one of the temperament or a combination of some of the four.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
1. Sanguine<\/p>\n\n\n\n
2. Choleric<\/p>\n\n\n\n
3. Melancholy<\/p>\n\n\n\n
4. Phlegmatic<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If four individuals with the four different temperaments are\nasked, to define love, they will have different definitions because of the way\nthey see and perceive love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
SANGUINE (World coolest people)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Common Traits<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n -They are naturally sweet mouthed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n – They are very good at saying kind and pleasant words.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -They are easy to please. Playing is a huge part of their\npersonality, there are no dull moments with them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -They talk to you as though they are in love with you, with\na lot of hugs and pecks, but it is just normal for them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -They talk a lot and love to be listened to and will often not\nkeep quiet. They have a good sense of humour.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -They are often very romantic in nature but also with\nunstable emotions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -They are very outgoing and like hanging out with their partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n CHOLERIC (Godship, Power, Fame, Wealth And Influence)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Common Traits<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n -They are not the dating type; they don’t fancy it. Many are\nconcerned about settling down when they are ready.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -Often, they don’t have a past record of relationships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -They dislike opposition, often they just want you to do it\nas they want it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -They are organized and go for what they want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -They are not emotional because they don’t want to look weak\nand vulnerable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -They don’t like to apologize but love appreciation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n – They are more faithful than sanguine because they are more\ngiven to work and career.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -They love household shores – washing, cleaning, cooking,\netc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -They are loyal and respectful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n -Their sexuality is usually high.<\/p>\n\n\n\n MELANCHOLY (Work Oriented, Excellence, Smartness And\nLoneliness)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Common Traits<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n -They are faithful lovers, but hard to be in love. A minor\nweakness from a partner can be a reason for disqualification.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -When in love they give an undoubted trust, but once it is\nlost, it is very difficult to come back.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -They often suffer from insecurity and need constant\nassurance of love from their partners.<\/p>\n\n\n\n – Many nags and complain a lot, never overlooking the\nslightest mistake and hates unseriousness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -They are often always yearning for a shoulder to cry on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Advice:<\/strong> When\nthey are experiencing mood swings, it is normal, stay away but not too far.\nMake him or her know you are there whenever they need anything. <\/p>\n\n\n\n -They value quality time; try to give them enough attention.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -They like words of affirmations; say pleasant words to them\noften and reassure them of your love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -They love physical contact that don\u2019t necessarily lead to\nsex.<\/p>\n\n\n\n PHLEGMATIC (Peace Maker, Charitable And Fearful)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Common Traits<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n -They Love effortlessly. Their most important priority is\nthat their partner would be happy, even if they are not, just to ensure peace.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -They are very sensitive and respect their partner’s\ndecision.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -They are averse to conflict and would rather recoil or\nremain quiet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -They give their partners latitude to work on shortcomings until\nthey cannot take it anymore and then they quit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -They have a lasting relationship not because it is a\nperfect relationship, but because of the fear of hurting someone, they rather\npretend to be okay and keep tolerating misdemeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n – They are indecisive, always worried about what people will\nsay and less about what they want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Advice:<\/strong> Because of these traits, the best partner of\na phlegmatic is a loving Choleric.<\/p>\n\n\n\n – They love sweet words; they love to be pampered. <\/p>\n\n\n\n – The Phlegmatic appreciates when their partner attends to\ntheir insecurities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n – They detest physical, verbal and emotional violence, and\nwill shut off even when they still appear friendly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n – They greatly appreciate your acceptance of your fault and\nwhen you sincerely say, “I am sorry”.<\/p>\n\n\n\n – They love physical\ntouch. This is symbolic of your care, commitment and attention to them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Why different temperament<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Studies show that temperament is determined by brain stem processes.\nEach person has a unique brain stem that cannot change throughout their life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Importance of studying temperaments<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n -To understand reasons behinds your partner\u2019s responses,\nactions, and reactions. <\/p>\n\n\n\n -To give an explanation to all the whys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -To give room for improvement in areas of weakness in the\nrelationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -To utilize each others\u2019 strengths most effectively.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -To allow the partners to accept each other for who they\nare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -To make it easier to know the most compatible temperament\nfor you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Effects of temperament on relationship<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n The effects are numerous, and they include strife, friction,\narguments, dissatisfaction, anger, nagging, low self-esteem, depression,\ndivorce, etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n How to know if your anger is associated to temperament<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Your partner seems wrong in the way he or she perceives\nthings – “decent people wouldn’t see or do it that way”<\/p>\n\n\n\n -Your partner honestly does not get why you are annoyed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -You are convinced that your way is the only right way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -Compare your partner to others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Remedy<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n -Be deliberate about studying your strengths and weakness\nand that of your partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -Understand how your temperament affects your life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -Use this understanding to be true to yourself and your\npartner especially in resolving issues.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -Develop a more positive outlook about life and your relationship\nand put your strengths to work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -Accept one another for who you are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -Get solid achievable goals to fight the weakness in you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -Use your understanding of temperament to improve your\ncompatibility.<\/p>\n\n\n\n -If you cannot handle the conflicts that your temperament\ncauses, seek the help of a therapist.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" By Oboghene J. 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