{"id":3427,"date":"2020-11-09T01:08:09","date_gmt":"2020-11-09T00:08:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/towncryyers.com\/?p=3427"},"modified":"2020-11-09T01:08:14","modified_gmt":"2020-11-09T00:08:14","slug":"how-do-you-tell-a-narcissist-that-they-didnt-win","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/towncryyers.com\/index.php\/2020\/11\/09\/how-do-you-tell-a-narcissist-that-they-didnt-win\/","title":{"rendered":"How Do You Tell A Narcissist That They Didn\u2019t Win?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Research reveals which US Presidents&#8217; speeches betray grandiose narcissism<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">By Raj Persaud, M.D. and Peter Bruggen, M.D.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">From the East Room of the White House in Washington, DC, at 2.30am on November 4, President Trump made an extraordinary speech, including these phrases, \u2018&#8230; We were getting ready to win this election. Frankly, we did win this election\u2026 We want all voting to stop. We don\u2019t want them to find any ballots at 4 o\u2019clock in the morning and add them to the list, okay? It\u2019s a very sad moment. To me, this is a very sad moment. And we will win this. As far as I\u2019m concerned, we already have won it.\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Which aspect of the above speech reveals most about the mental state of the speaker?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Have a go at this psychological test question before reading the rest of the article!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Psychologists who have analysed in detail the speech patterns of US Presidents, and what their choice of words reveal about their personality, have recently published a study, the results of which suggest that it is possible such a speech might reveal a hidden mental agenda, which normally lies behind the words.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Yet it is the psychology behind the allegations of vote rigging which is being ignored by the rest of the world, as they focused on whether or not there was any truth behing this astonishing accusation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The study entitled, \u2018The Best Words: Linguistic Indicators of Grandiose Narcissism in Politics\u2019, was in fact inspired by another, earlier, speech by the President; at a 2015 campaign event, Donald Trump claimed, \u201cI have the best words.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This boast appears to have inspired the authors of this research, James Underberg, Anton Gollwitzer, Gabriele Oettingen, and Peter Gollwitzer, because it seemed the kind of bragging only a so-called \u2018textbook\u2019 narcissist might be associated with.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The study used previous research which involved assessing grandiose narcissism personality scores for each president from George Washington Through to George W. Bush, based on the judgements of 177 historians. According to this analysis Theodore Roosevelt and Lyndon Johnson scored very high on grandiose self-admiration, while Grover Cleveland and James Monroe scored very low.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The authors investigated a particular form of vanity, \u2018grandiose narcissism\u2019, which typically describes the kind of person convinced of their general wonderfulness, but to the extreme extent of becoming aggressive and dominant with attention-seeking acts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Because narcissists are devoted to acquiring leadership, fame, and wealth, losing power and status will lead them to feel more totally empty, whereas the less self-absorbed can adjust to a relatively more anonymous life after the Presidency, and accept more gracefully that it is someone else\u2019s turn to take the top job.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As narcissists display heightened self-importance and entitlement to special treatment, it makes sense for them to believe losing means a contest has been rigged against them, simply because they are not winning. This would explain why they may not feel the need to provide any further evidence of cheating against them. The mere fact of trailing becomes confirmation of an antagonistic conspiracy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">These egotists pursue rank and standing much more relentlessly than non-narcissists do, so are much likely to overstate their capabilities or fib to get ahead. Narcissists tend to interrupt more, (remember the first televised debate?), and so given all the warning signs, anyone facing an electoral contest with a narcissist should have anticipated the voter fraud contentions. Anyone in a race with those so in love with themselves, should not only have a contingency plan beforehand, but also should perhaps be more robust in rebutting post-contest allegations, as opposed to Joe Biden\u2019s somewhat passive response, to date.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Another reason narcissism may lie at the heart of the current predicament the USA finds itself in, with disturbing claims of election rigging, is the vain are notorious for suffering from \u201cnarcissistic rage\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This is an explosive mix of anger and hostility, arising from threats to the self-abosorbed sense of superiority. Narcissists cannot therefore accept losing in any contest, as this is too menacing to their convictions of pre-eminence. As a result, it is natural, indeed inevitable, for narcissists to claim not that they didn\u2019t win, instead the other side must have stolen the victory through cheating.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Two speeches per president were analysed in the research, published in the Journal of Language and Social Psychology, which meant the average number of words entered into the analysis per president was 10,308 words, including the first inaugural addresses and first State of the Union addresses.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The study, by psychologists based at New York University, and Yale University, finds that more \u2018grandiose\u2019 U.S. presidents use words differently than their humbler presidential counterparts, including in particular using more \u201cwe-talk.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Grandiosity was most strongly predicted by \u2018we-talk\u2019, otherwise known as first-person plural pronouns. It certainly seems as if Donald Trump is rather attracted to the use of the word \u2018we\u2019, check out how often this personal pronoun appears in the excerpt from the \u2018election fraud\u2019 speech above.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Donald Trump\u2019s speech appeared more \u2018off the cuff\u2019 and therefore not the product of a team of script-writers. One obvious criticism of this study is that Presidents\u2019 speeches are written, to varying degrees, by speechwriters. However, the authors defended their analysis by pointing out that it is well known that candidates select the speechwriters and edit their work to ensure that it is in their own voice. Also, stable word use patterns in politicians\u2019 speeches written by different speechwriters have been noted to occur over time. Political speeches have therefore been accepted as valid for personality analysis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trump\u2019s speech perhaps achieved many narcissistic goals; maybe it kept the media spotlight on him just when it should have been moving away, towards Joe Biden, the candidate shown to be edging ahead. Also, it possibly fitted with the classic narcissistic agenda of derogation of the competition.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So, how to handle the narcissist, how to tell them they didn\u2019t win, when their injured self-esteem might turn them into a dangerous adversary? A wounded animal is sometimes more deadly than one fit enough to escape.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Two classic techniques are both deeply manipulative, and can be referred to as \u2018Illusion of Victory\u2019 and \u2018love bombing\u2019.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The \u2018illusion of victory\u2019 is achieved by rendering second prize larger and more sparkly than the winner\u2019s cup. Make those in love with themselves an offer which makes them feel like winners, so they are never abandoned to confront the reality of losing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Another tactic, \u2018Love bombing\u2019, requires overwhelming someone with messages and signals of adoration and attraction. You can make a loser feel like a winner by praising the way they fought, and celebrating achievements which will never be forgotten.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For example, perhaps &#8216;behind the scenes&#8217; offers of a visiting Ambassadorship, or some similar role, where an ex-President could travel the world with their own personal camera crew, in an official Air-Force \u2018one-and-a-half\u2019, could transform the prospect of a crash, into a take-off.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But then again, maybe a \u2018deal-maker\u2019 may have harboured that plan all along.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dr. Peter Bruggen passed away in 2018. While this post was written by Dr. Raj Persaud, Dr. Bruggen&#8217;s name is retained biographically as a tribute to his contributions overall.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Originally published at Psychology Today<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Research reveals which US Presidents&#8217; speeches betray grandiose narcissism By Raj Persaud, M.D. and Peter Bruggen, M.D. From the East Room of the White House in Washington, DC, at 2.30am on November 4, President Trump&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3428,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[10],"tags":[979],"class_list":["post-3427","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-health","tag-narcissist"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.2 - 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