{"id":5059,"date":"2021-07-07T04:48:42","date_gmt":"2021-07-07T03:48:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/towncryyers.com\/?p=5059"},"modified":"2021-07-07T04:48:47","modified_gmt":"2021-07-07T03:48:47","slug":"how-telling-your-kids-no-prepares-them-for-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/towncryyers.com\/index.php\/2021\/07\/07\/how-telling-your-kids-no-prepares-them-for-life\/","title":{"rendered":"How Telling Your Kids \u2018No\u2019 Prepares Them For Life"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em><br>Kids with boundaries turn into resourceful adults.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><br>By Drake Baer<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><br>It\u2019s obvious by now that kids who are never told \u201cno\u201d turn into spoiled teens and entitled adults. Giving kids whatever they want might have a cognitive effect, too: Rice University management professor Scott Sonenshein says that it turns them into lazy thinkers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you get everything you want, he argues in a new column in the New York Times, then you never learn to work with what you\u2019ve got. \u201cWhen we always yield to our children\u2019s wants, we rob them of the opportunity to find solutions by adapting what they already have,\u201d he writes. It\u2019s kind of like using GPS all the time: if you only get around by listening to the Google Lady, you don\u2019t give your brain a chance to build a mental map.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">With kids, Sonenshein says, it\u2019s not that you shouldn\u2019t provide for their core needs, like healthy food, warm clothes and lots of love. But setting boundaries doesn\u2019t just guide more responsible behavior, through a process called \u201csocialization\u201d\u200a\u2014\u200ait also has a way of opening their minds. \u201cBy having children occasionally experience scarcity, we can help them solve problems more effectively,\u201d he says.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This is the sort of thing that artists and writers have talked about for a long time. Leonardo da Vinci is said to have quipped that \u201csmall rooms discipline the mind,\u201d and Robert Frost thought that writing free verse\u200a\u2014\u200awhere there\u2019s no formal structure\u200a\u2014\u200ais the poetic equivalent of playing tennis with the net down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sohenshein points to a couple of studies that underscore all this\u200a\u2014\u200aand how the idea of scarcity can continue to help us as adults. The most compelling is a 2015 paper by Ravi Mehta at the University of Illinois and Meng Zhu at Johns Hopkins. Over the course of six experiments, participants were split into two groups: one was asked to write a short essay about a time growing up where they had scarce resources, and another to write on a time where they had lots. They then completed various creative thinking tasks, like coming up with different uses for bubble wrap or building a prototype toy. In each case, the scarcity group outperformed the abundant one\u200a\u2014\u200athey consistently saw things in new ways.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">By establishing boundaries, Sohenshein says, we open minds. \u201cKids who learn from denial realize at an early age that they won\u2019t always have the perfect tool for every job,\u201d he observes. \u201cThey might not know something, have something, or be something. But that\u2019s not the end of pursuing goals\u200a\u2014\u200ait\u2019s the beginning of activating their resourcefulness to find another way.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Originally published at journal.thriveglobal.com<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kids with boundaries turn into resourceful adults. By Drake Baer It\u2019s obvious by now that kids who are never told \u201cno\u201d turn into spoiled teens and entitled adults. 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