January 2021

Mr. Tony Elumelu

Drilling Against All Odds

By Simon Kolawole If I’m honest, there has not been much to cheer about Nigeria in recent times. As someone who always tries to keep a positive attitude towards life — a disposition that makes…


Self Reflection

Validation Starts With You

Accept your internal experience and build your identity. By Karyn Hall, Ph.D. Validation is the expression of honest understanding. It’s the acknowledgment of others, of their thoughts, feelings, and actions. And to do a better…


Lawyers and judges

ICPC’s Exposé Of Bribery Of Judges By Lawyers

Punch Editorial AN unimaginable intensity of corruption is threatening Nigeria’s justice system. At issue is the duplicitous practice of lawyers bribing judges to pervert the cause of justice. Accordingly, a new survey details the sordid…


Follow me

Please Follow Me

Does validation on social media tell you what type of person you are? By Martin Graff, Ph.D. If you use social media, do you consider these statements to be accurate about you, or are you…


Underage Marriage

Idiocy of Underage Married Girls’ Suffrage

By Shaka Momodu Just when you think that you’ve heard or seen the worst of government’s bizarre pronouncements, you are suddenly faced with the rude awakening that this government is eager to break its own…


Gratitude

Don’t Feel Grateful? That’s Okay

Forced Gratitude can make you feel worse. By Sarah Epstein There is a lot of pressure to feel grateful for health and well-being right now. After all, so many others are in terrible pain. Gratitude…




Couple

Affirmation Or Validation?

Why validation may be the key to communication. By Marisa T. Cohen, Ph.D. When affirming something, you are offering support, or asserting something as fact. There is usually a positive connotation to this, in which…