Are we too quick to dismiss the long-distance option? By Mark Travers Ph.D. Many people come to therapy wondering if their relationship is going to survive geographical separation. They may ask questions like: · “I…
1. Nurture it like a living, breathing thing. By George S. Everly, Jr. PhD, ABPP, FACLP As I write this, my youngest daughter is preparing for her wedding day. In fact, we just went through…
Giving yourself the gift of healthy, secure love. By Jeffrey Bernstein Ph.D. Once, years ago, on a warm beautiful day, I climbed Squaw Peak in Arizona. There I was, getting directly in touch with Mother…
By Randi Gunther Ph.D. Sadly, many couples come to see me when their relationship is in trouble. Sometimes, they’ve tried to do as much on their end first and have finally run out of emotional…
9. You’re confusing chemistry for compatibility. By Roxy Zarrabi Psy.D. Have you ever looked back at a previous relationship and wondered, “What was I thinking?” It may feel surprising to look back and realize how…
Here are just a few ideas to become closer to the one you adore. By Barton Goldsmith Ph.D. There are a million or so ways to show your love. Here are a few more to…
Before turning to divorce, try these tips to help upgrade your relationship By Ann Gold Buscho Ph.D. The three most common reasons people divorce are lack of commitment or drifting apart, infidelity, and conflict/arguing. Creating…
How to stop being attracted to the wrong person. By Andrea Mathews LPC, NCC A silent scream echoes in her mind: “Why is this happening to me again?” Why does she get attracted to and…
Strategies to help you create more open communication and emotional intimacy. By Alexandra H. Solomon Ph.D. A commonly asked relationship question is: “How do I get my partner to open up to me?” The pain…
Suggestions for sexual, career, neediness, and other imbalances By Marty Nemko Ph.D. In a recent post, I offered four options for dealing with an asymmetrical relationship. But the advice was generic across all types of…
